The Limited

Did you know that Bride on a budget can now find GORGEOUS dresses at The Limited for great deals?!

Engagement Rings

I love these antique rings!!
More. Vintage. Rings.
I love the look of the dainty thin band and big center piece.
I want a ring with a story. Does your ring have a story?

Pretty cute

Happy Tuesday :)

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How healthy is your relationship?

Below are 40 things that are included in a healthy loving relationship. No relationship is perfect, there are always things you could work on :)

1. You can be your true selves with each other.
2. You feel comfortable sharing your deepest thoughts, fears, and emotions with each other.
3. You rarely lie to each other, but you also refrain from being brutally honest.
4. You give each other space and/or “Me time.”
5. You make it through rough times as a couple without splitting up.
6. You agree (or genuinely agree to disagree) on financial matters.
7. You treat each other the way you would like to be treated, not necessarily the way you feel you’re being treated at the moment.
8. You and your mate completely deal with your problems, refusing to leave them unresolved until resentments form.
9. You forgive each other for mistakes.
10. You don’t tell each other what you should or shouldn’t think/feel.
11. You both listen without interrupting.
12. You respect each others’ privacy.
13. You speak each others’ Love Language, even if it’s different from your own.
14. You willingly make sacrifices for each other.
15. You share mutual interests and activities.
16. You respect each others’ individuality and make the most of your differences.
17. You act as each others’ backbone, providing loving support without guilt.
18. You share spiritual beliefs or a spiritual connection.
19. You show sensitivity to each others’ needs.
20. You discuss and negotiate instead of fighting.
21. Each partner takes responsibility for their own thoughts and feelings.
22. There is mutual trust and dedication.
23. You have a strong friendship.
24. In addition to loving each other, you genuinely like each other.
25. You don’t judge or force your opinions on each other.
26. You take quality time to nurture your relationship.
27. Both partners maintains his/her own set of boundaries and respects the boundaries of the other.
28. You are both attentive to the needs of yourself and the other.
29. You enjoy physical contact (hugs, kisses, cuddling, sex) together.
30. You show appreciation for each other.
31. Hardship, uncertainty, and disagreements are accepted as a part of life.
32. You communicate openly and meaningfully with each other.
33. There is equal power between you and your mate.
34. You keep your expectations of each other in check.
35. You genuinely apologize to one another when feelings are hurt.
36. You and your mate speak up assertively instead of expecting the other to read minds.
37. You both eliminate passive aggressive behavior (ignoring, silent treatment, eye rolling, stomping, hanging up the phone) as much as possible.
38. You have a strong sense of interdependence (mutual responsibility) to each other rather than dependence or co-dependence.
39. You avoid going to bed mad.
40. You CAN live without each other, but you choose each other over every alternative choice.

Credits: http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/1IE473/blog.self-improvement-saga.com/2010/08/40-signs-youre-in-a-healthy-relationship/

keep close what matters most 2011

{New Years Resolutions}

Health:

• Drink 8 cups of water a day
  
• Exercise 4 days a week
• Run a half marathon :)
• Engage in more stimulating conversations
• Pray daily
• Put yourself out of your comfort zone (bikram yoga, new food, etc.)
  
• Read more books

Business:

• Network with everyone you meet
• Blog weekly
• Do things that inspire and motivate you
• Dont be afraid of being different
• Create a website (Sierra Events)
  
• Market yourself

Life:

• Dont waste time gossiping
• Dont compare your life to others
• Live in the moment, stop planning so much
• Smile even when no one is looking
• Sing in the car
• Experiences are more valuable than things
• No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
• Stay in touch with friends
• Forgive everyone for EVERYTHING
• Keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away
• Call your family and tell them you love them
• Find something good in every situation
• Dont let anyone love you more than you love yourself
• The BEST is yet to come